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[拒絕平凡](六十五): 「大富之家，以愛為本」–對「愛爸媽，愛我家」的反思<\/p>\n

香港基督教三大宗派，包括宣道會，浸信會和播道會，今日在報章刊登題為「宣明婚姻立場，維護家庭價值」的聯署聲明，並在五月十八日發起名為「愛爸媽，愛我家」的運動啟動禮及巡遊活動。他們表明今次活動，是在聯合國國際家庭年二十週年之際，申明一男一女、一夫一妻的婚姻及家庭制度是上帝所設立，同性婚姻是上帝所不悅納，同性性行為更是上帝憎惡的罪。
\n 傳統教會花費巨資，利用群眾壓力，打壓同志，散播仇恨，已非新鮮事。尤其在社會愈開放，市民對同志愈包容的時候，教會反而倒行逆施，走回頭路，在情在理都說不過去。
\n 今次教會再次搬出所謂「家庭核心價值」，認為家庭必須建基在「一男一女」之上，這已經是極過時的想法。其實世上任何進步的國家，已經修改了「家庭」的定義。任何人，不論男女，男男，女女，只要自願結合，都可以組織家庭。
\n 筆者在破碎家庭中長大，母親長期患病，父親好賭好嫖。雖然不至於單親家庭，但多少能體會到，在單親家庭中長大之苦。
\n 我不禁要問: 究竟家庭的基礎是什麼？只是「一男一女」，這種膚淺的外在形式？還是不論性別，而建基於「愛」？如果父母之間沒有愛，一男一女又有何用？
\n 社會上有很多同志，希望有同志婚姻，與愛人一生一世，建立有愛的家庭。但由於傳統基督教的霸道，與基督教議員的刻意打壓，令多少對同志戀人未能連理，甚至每日活在歧視之中。他們的苦況，教會何曾了解過？縱使你討厭同性戀，但根據人人平等的原則，都必需要給予同志有婚姻的權利，有建立家庭的權利。否則，這就是歧視。
\n 把家庭界定在一男一女，是自私又霸道的行為; 利用群眾暴力打壓同志，更是可恥又野蠻。
\n 教會，你何時才肯收手？<\/p>\n

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